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Philadelphia, PA
November 25, 2025
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That was my first thought- how do I tell my kids? And they're 42 and 35 but it was still hard. I thought for a while and maybe slept on it before I told them. One lives in Tokyo and I had to email him and finding the wording was tough. The other one lives on the other side of the country. I think I started by saying that I had some "not so good news" and then shared that I had a procedure and the doctor told me that the pathology report found cancer cells (which sounds gentler than endometrial cancer) and it looked like it was caught early. It was such a shock to me to be diagnosed with cancer that I can't even imagine what they thought. My partner had a very hard time talking about it without breaking down- I told 3 of his children but I made him tell the fourth one. It's so hard to talk about. And he learned words that he never thought he'd know. Me, too! I kept them up to date on what was going on but also made sure to talk about work and other events.

November 26, 2025
A MyEndometrialCancerTeam Member

Still makes me cry thinking about telling my family, especially my children. After the initial conversation I committed to being open and sharing with them. I worry about them so try to make sure we do and talk about other stuff. Good luck with your conversations ❤️

November 25, 2025
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How have others dealt with telling loved ones about their endometrial cancer diagnosis?

Telling loved ones about a cancer diagnosis can feel overwhelming, and many members have found different approaches that worked for them.

Some suggestions from the community include:

- Start small: Consider telling one trusted person Show Full Answer

How have others dealt with telling loved ones about their endometrial cancer diagnosis?

Telling loved ones about a cancer diagnosis can feel overwhelming, and many members have found different approaches that worked for them.

Some suggestions from the community include:

- Start small: Consider telling one trusted person first, like a close friend or family member who can offer support
- Choose your timing: Pick a quiet moment when you feel emotionally ready and won't be rushed
- Keep it simple: You don't need to share everything at once - start with basic information and add details as you're comfortable
- Write it down: Some find it easier to send a message or letter first, then follow up with conversation
- Bring support: Having someone else present (like a partner or friend) can make the conversation feel less daunting

Remember, there's no "right" way to share this news. It's completely normal to struggle with finding the words or the right moment.

You might also consider sharing your experiences and questions with other members in the Q&A section of the community. Many have been through this difficult conversation and may offer insights that resonate with your specific situation.

Be gentle with yourself during this time - telling people becomes easier with practice, and it's okay to take it at your own pace.

November 25, 2025

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