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Staffordshire

I’m 32 was trying for a baby & it seems that isn’t going to be possible now :( I’m not aware as of yet what stage I am what treatment I will need or anything, everything just feels so surreal and I keep having out pours of tears, I feel angry &sad.

I guess I am looking for people at a similar stage, age & if anyone has had a good outcome with treatment regarding having a baby.

July 23 (edited)
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First, what you're feeling right now — the tears, the anger, the sadness — is completely valid. A diagnosis like this at 32, especially when you were trying to start a family, is a lot to carry. Please be gentle with yourself. 💙

The good news is that for some people diagnosed at an early stage, there are Show Full Answer

First, what you're feeling right now — the tears, the anger, the sadness — is completely valid. A diagnosis like this at 32, especially when you were trying to start a family, is a lot to carry. Please be gentle with yourself. 💙

The good news is that for some people diagnosed at an early stage, there are fertility-preserving options worth discussing with a gynecologic oncologist (a specialist in reproductive cancers). One option that some younger patients explore is progestin therapy — a hormone treatment that can temporarily shrink tumors, potentially allowing a window to try for pregnancy. During this time, doctors monitor closely every 3 to 6 months.

It's important to know this option isn't suitable for everyone, and there are risks, including the cancer continuing to grow. This is why having an open, honest conversation with both a gynecologic oncologist and a fertility specialist is so important before making any decisions. Since you don't yet know your stage or treatment plan, try not to close any doors just yet. Once staging is confirmed, you'll have a much clearer picture of what options are available to you.

Some questions worth asking your care team:

- Am I a candidate for fertility-preserving treatment?
- Would progestin therapy be safe for my situation?
- Should I see a fertility specialist alongside my oncologist?
- Are there clinical trials I might be eligible for? Other MyEndometrialCancerTeam members have shared similar feelings of shock and grief after diagnosis, especially around fertility. You are absolutely not alone in this. Connecting with others who truly get it can make a real difference on the harder days.

July 23

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